Our culture has accepted two huge lies. The first is that if you disagree with someone’s lifestyle, you must fear or hate them. The second is that to love someone means you agree with everything they believe or do. Both are nonsense. You don’t have to compromise convictions to be compassionate.

Rick Warren

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im wary of this. whats the context. the only time ive heard “hating someones lifestyle” is in reference to gay people and yeah if you hate that you hate me so. personally i do only love people who agree with me on most things because those things are important to me. weird.

i could be out of line in this because i dont know the context but mmm im skeptical

(Source: stability)

btw if youre genuinely confused about why somethings wrong (stuff with #shotacon comes to mind bc i keep thinking about how i saw it differently when i was younger) i can try to help.

i know i get angry and dismissive at times but if youre genuinely confused and want to learn im always happy to answer any questions you have.

nepetaleijon:

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someone told you that your products with the word “shota” were fucking creepy and that your pretty boy comic romanticizes bullying not to mention after this tweet you started having a shitfest on twitter about this whole ordeal

thehat2:

meladoodle:

what do you mean a thesaurus isnt a dinosaur

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Anonymous
whats wrong with omocat??? i hope i dont come off as rude but ive seen two people reblog the same post that you did sorry idk,,

no this isnt rude dont worry!! she sells a shirt that says “shota” on it, thus profiting off of child abuse lmao

when called out on this she completely dismissed it. heres a post about that

Anonymous
tonight was the first time i ever stopped hiding from the fact that im trans and yeah i just felt like telling someone bc this is a Big Moment for me and you don't know me but following you was huge in me figuring out that im not cis so thank you owo

ahh im really proud of you!!!! i offer you a virtual hug if you would like that. congratulations, good luck with everything!!!!

Anonymous
wait whats wrong w omocat

she sells a shirt that says “shota” on it, thus profiting off of child abuse lmao

when called out on this she completely dismissed it. heres a post about that

feelknower93:

equivalent experiences: having to see a hotter guy date a girl who you want to date, being harassed

dtjman19:

faypunk:

all love should be conditional. those who would hurt you do not deserve your love and that is a perfectly acceptable condition.

The problem is that all human beings are flawed, therefore even the best of us will slip or get selfish and end up hurting those we love most. The more you love someone the easier it is to be hurt by them because as you grow closer, more and more walls come down. And as that happens more and more of your flaws come out uninhibited by the now non-existent wall and cause pain.

Living by the above principle is a great recipe to live a closed-off, “me-first” kind of life which WILL leave you old and alone. The people who get the most out of life are those who give the most. Focusing on others is a much better recipe for fulfillment than living with walls and hoarding your own joy and fulfillment.

Probably the worst part of the above quote is that it says “All love”. Parents should NEVER have conditional love for their children. When I become a parent I want my kids to know that there is literally nothing they could do to make me stop loving them.

idk all living by this principle has done for ME is made me stop being abused because i got the hell out of dodge when people treated me terribly. i now am surrounded by people who make a point not to hurt me! it is a very healthy way to live, because those i love dont hurt me and i make a point not to hurt those i love. 

also i guess i see what you mean, yeah, though even with children some conditions can apply (i wont love my child if they are a murderer or sexual predator, for instance). my bad on not specifying more though.

however i still stand by the main sentiment. unconditional love is what led me to believe i had to love the people who beat and abused me, and i did not deserve that, that was a perfectly acceptable condition to uphold.

faypunk:

all love should be conditional. those who would hurt you do not deserve your love and that is a perfectly acceptable condition.